Message-ID: <Pine.SUN.3.95.990619150850.29371W-100000@unix3.netaxs.com> Date: Sat, 19 Jun 1999 15:09:43 -0400 From: Andrew Geoghegan <mailto:geoghega@NETAXS.COM> Subject: *Actually* Having "A Relationship" ... (fwd) To: mailto:DEVEL-L@AMERICAN.EDU
---------- Forwarded message ---------- Date: Thu, 17 Jun 1999 15:02:16 -0400 (EDT) From: Andrew Geoghegan <mailto:geoghega@netaxs.com> To: mailto:NETPSY@MAELSTROM.STJOHNS.EDU Cc: mailto:geoghega@netaxs.com Subject: *Actually* Having "A Relationship" ...
*Actually* Having "A Relationship" ,,, or Life after the Milkshake League
First, one must stay in one place long enough to "address" someone else then one must DO something with another, as in: "Let's Go Shopping", "Let's Buy A House", "Let's Buy A Car", "Let's Go On A Cruise" why not go 50/50 with someone on a car loan/purchase for practice in relating to one another? marraige is an agreement to spend time together, extended Periods of time together... 1% physical sexual intercourse %99 platonic activities in this Oprah world we need fireside chats to remind us of these basic tenents 99% platonic activities is much more than mere loss of virginity, one night stands, stolen glances we need to be reminded of this